Month: January 2025

cloud in the shape of a heart

Love Across the Veil

Wendy VanderWal Martin offers a beautiful contribution to our new teaching theme by exploring the possibility that those who have come before us and those who have ‘loved us in the flesh’ are still present to us beyond death and can be significant portals of Love. She turns to the great cloud of witnesses mentioned in Hebrews 12 to help us imagine this and shares her own experiences of this kind of presence in her life. Wendy invites us all to be open to the idea that we are truly never alone.

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Love in the Wilderness

As we start to move into our new teaching theme of “The Path of Love: A Way in the Wilderness,” Rachael reviews what inspired it and brings forward Walter’s contributions about the vulnerability of love from before the theme even began! Then she explores the idea that our human experience of the path of love is always a way in the wilderness, and that the conditions that make love hard and vulnerable are exactly what cause its most beautiful expressions to emerge.

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Confessions

On this 2nd Breakfast (and last service before his sabbatical begins), Walter shares his inability to tell whether the fact that it’s taken him ten years since he admitted to himself that he was unhealthily over-stressed with work responsibilities is a confession (of rationalizations and justifications) or a celebration that he’s finally made it to a reduced workload. He then invites everyone to reflect on whether they are avoiding or facing reality as 2025 begins.

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Paul Day sculpture of commuters on a bus

“Joining” (Invocation)

The next section of the Alternate Liturgy serves as a unique form of invocation – an invitation for us to be aware of the Presence of God, to acknowledge the connection that we often forget is at the centre of our lives.

I believe that this section is all original to our community, but I wouldn’t be shocked if a phrase or two was recalled from elsewhere. An earlier version of this began the liturgy before we added the Thanksgiving Address to the beginning, and we’ve made a few improvements along the way as well.

A key priority in this section is for us to start with a mindful and honest acknowledgement of “how we are coming” to the service, particularly with an awareness of how often the conscious experience of Presence and connection drift away from our attention as we live our lives.

About two thirds of the way through, we turn our attention from our starting place, and “call out for help.” Here is the invocation proper, when we invite God to meet us in our need and help prepare us to face life well. Here is the “Joining” section:

From where we are,
We begin the journey

We sense that we are often disconnected
From our bodies, from ourselves
From each other – those near and those far away
From the dirt beneath our feet, the sky above us
From You, our God – ever present, often hidden
Manifest and silent

Now, we are here
We are here together
Now, we take a step
we reach out, we take a breath

Together, we wait
With our doubt and our faith
We look up, raise our voices, and call out for help

When we hurt and when we grieve
Walk with us
When we are stubborn and rebellious
Soften us
When we are mired in self-pity
Free us
When we hide in shame
Find us
When we are anxious and afraid
Encourage us
When we see only ourselves
Open our eyes

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The Path of Love: A Way in the Wilderness

This Sunday, Jess Williams introduced our new teaching theme, ‘The Path of Love: A Way in the Wilderness’ and invited us to enter the year holding the question, “is this the path of love?” as a guide through the times ahead. She explains how the leadership collective arrived at this theme, and shares some of the passages, poetry, and community insights that led them here.

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